A Crutch or an Anchor?

At the end of 2020 – we all shared a collective sigh……………it’s been so much……too much. 

On the other hand, it’s brought out some very good things in people.  And – I am convinced we will never take certain things for granted…………………ever again.

  • Eating together at a restaurant.
  • Worshiping at church or going to a bible study.
  • Going shopping – not the targeted stuff we do now, but sauntering through a store just to look.
  • Singing in a choir.
  • Hugging…………………………oh my word – yes, the hugs we have missed.
  • Holding hands, touching a face, being close………….the communication of……..TOUCH!

The struggles we have been through cause me to think about what we are holding onto.

Over the years, I’ve heard people talk about faith and liken it to a crutch.  After losing my husband 6 ½ years ago, I am here to tell you and anyone who will listen – – – – – it’s NOT a crutch – IT’S AN ANCHOR !!!

God’s people have had their faith tested sorely this year. And while we are all tired and sad and struggling in one way or another, we are still standing…………….if our faith is truly an anchor

We’ve generally had a pretty easy time of things over the years – with a few major bumps in the road.  This year – the whole road is bumpy. It pushed us, tested us.  Do we really believe what we say we believe??? 

Scripture holds promises – precious promises.  And – we learn so much about God’s character in scripture.  But how well do Christians know scripture?  I don’t mean that we need to sound like we’ve been to seminary.  But what do you know for certain from God’s word, whether you can quote the address of it or not?  Have you had scripture you memorized because it was intensely personal to you? 

It’s all of this that we can hold onto right now…………….and it matters.  And. . . .it will matter, truly matter as we move forward in the days ahead.   

I heard Dr. Charles Stanley say that we need to “obey God and trust Him with the consequences.”  That’s so good.  Do we trust Him?  Do we firmly believe in His character?  He is always faithful.  He will never leave us or forsake us.  He’s the only one that will do that & oh by the way – never change.  Everything around us changes……………..He doesn’t. 

This brings me back to the crutch vs Anchor subject.

A crutch props one up to assist giving extra support.  An anchor is a reliable support, holds an object firmly.  One is temporary and may or may not be reliable.  The other is reliable and can hold firmly.  I don’t know about you, but I want the second one.  No matter what happens, I want something that’s sure, that’s reliable, that will hold me firmly while the storm rages around me. 

Jesus is my Anchor!  The hope, a know so hope, we have in Christ is sure, certain, reliable.  Hebrews 6:19 says – This hope is a strong & trustworthy anchor for our souls.  Hebrews 13:5 says – For God has said, I will never fail you.  I will never abandon you.  (NLT)

That’s what I want.  That’s what I hold to.  That’s my Anchor.

As one who has gone through the top 2 experiences on the Trauma Scale – Death & Move – let me share a couple scriptures that have encouraged me and helped me maintain my focus.

Isaiah 41:13 – For I, the Lord your God, hold your right hand; it is I who says to you, ‘Fear not, I am the One who helps you.’ (ESV)  Deuteronomy 31:8 – The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.  Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged. (NIV)

Horrible 2020 is done.  Welcome 2021 !  While it feels like a fresh start, we know everything isn’t going to be normal for quite awhile.  But God……………………oh yes, God’s got this.  He has not relinquished authority or command. 

So dear one, do you have a crutch or an Anchor?   Take time to examine your heart.  Where are you putting your hope? 

Now is the perfect time to seek God’s face and reaffirm that He is your Anchor – for  now & for always. 

Is It Well With You?

Obey My voice, and I will be your God,, and you will be My people; and you will walk in all the way which I command you that it may be well with you.  Jeremiah 7:23

 

Before we ever walked into the store, I told my two kids how I expected them to behave. . . . .in detail.  This particular store brought out the worst begging in my children.  In addition to my detailed outline for good behavior, there was also a reward of sorts for obeying. Maybe a small something from the store or an ice cream cone, or even going to McDonalds or Sonic for lunch.  And no, we didn’t do that lots.  Cumulatively, eating out, even at McDonalds, was expensive and we had to watch our pennies.

I wish I could tell you they always obeyed so the rest of the day went well for them, but I can’t.  They, like all kids, chose to disobey at least half the time, maybe more. 

Today’s verse reminds me that when I obey God’s voice & walk in the way He shows me, it is indeed well with me.

But I tend to be like my children at that store.  I choose to disobey.  We all do this.  Sometimes we do it outright.  Sometimes the enemy sugar coats things and we fall for it, not realizing at the time what a bad choice we are making. 

How thankful I am for God’s grace and mercy.  He is faithful even when I am not.  When I confess my sin, He is faithful to forgive.  I get to start again with a clean slate.

The same thing happened with my children.  The next time we went to that store, they had another opportunity to obey. 

God loves us like that too.  He forgives us.  He picks us up and dusts us off.  He asks us to obey Him and walk in ALL the ways He tells us.  We have another opportunity to obey.

Obeying isn’t always easy.  But the closer I stay to Him, the better I am at it. 

Dear one, press in closer to Him and see how good it is.  And when you disobey ( notice I didn’t say if ), confess it.  He will be faithful to forgive and give you a fresh start.

We all want it to be well with us.  Lean in closer to God.  Stay in His word and talk with Him.  It makes all the difference.

Lord – Help me to obey Your voice and walk in ALL the ways You command.  Thank you for Your grace and mercy even though I don’t deserve it.  Help me to be all you want me to be.  Amen

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year !

My apologies for being away from the blog for so long.  Fall is my over-the-top busy time and I didn’t manage it well with some of the new things in my life, like this blog.  I promise I will endeavor to restructure my time and get my act together.

Last Year

At the beginning of 2017, I noticed people on Facebook chose a word for the year.  Some examples were – joy, faith, grace. Mine for 2017 was –> God’s Timeline.  In 2017 God showed me that He is Lord of the timeline.  He is, in fact, Author of the play.  His Word clearly states that His ways are not my ways.  It all made sense.

This Year

For 2018 my word is Trust.  Not only am I seeing that word in bible study, song lyrics and sermons, but that word is popping up in other devos as well as Facebook, stores, you name it.  I’m convinced God is telling me to focus on this.  If I’m honest, I think I’ve only been trusting to a point. You too? If you are like me, this realization didn’t come easily.  It took some time in His presence talking to Him and more importantly, listening, in order to get it.   I see now that I have to completely trust Him in order to press into hope.

Hope

Hope. . .it’s what we long for – – – it’s what we need sometimes more than anything. And I want to get there, but right now things can seem pretty hopeless.  I know that God is working even when I can’t see, but in my heart, it’s not always easy to be “all in” with that.  And perhaps for me, trust and contentment go hand in hand.  God is truly calling me to be content where I am – and to be honest that’s a hard one.  This is where I have to rely on God’s promises, and so do you.  God is faithful even when no one else is.  God is fully and completely reliable.  God reminds me in His Word who I am in Him and that I have an awesome inheritance too.  I have a heavenly home waiting for me once all this earthly mess is done. So I’m choosing to believe that He is able to do “beyond the beyond’, as Priscilla Shirer says in one of her bible studies.  I choose to remember that “impossible is where God starts” as Christine Caine has said in her teaching sessions.

Are you struggling to trust completely?  Let’s do this thing together.  Keep in God’s Word – Keep praying & listening – Cling to His promises & know that He’s got all this – Jesus is able to do far more than we could ever ask or think. Hallelujah!

Ephesians 3:20-21  Now to Him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, to Him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever & ever. Amen.